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"I've done all my own planning and want a "day-of" coordinator but can't find one who will show up on the wedding day only !  Why?" There's probably a lot of confusion amongst engaged couples because of the term "day-of" coordinator. If you end up speaking to someone who says they will only show up on the wedding day and save you lots of money because of it, please stay clear of them! Many wedding planners may label their coordination as "day-of" wedding coordination, but there is far more involved than just showing up on the wedding day when it comes to a professional wedding planner who knows what she/he is doing. Photo Credit: Estes Images Here are some reasons why a wedding coordinator shouldn't show up  only  on the wedding day: Many planners begin their coordination services 4-8 weeks out because many venues request the wedding day timeline one month prior. A 1 1/2 to 2 hour timeline meeting typically kicks off ...

If you are a couple who is deciding to see each other before the ceremony, unless you have a 2-3 hour gap of time between the ceremony and reception, you know that you will have more time for creative photography of you and your wedding party. Therefore, don't be afraid to try new things, bring in props and most of all HAVE FUN and enjoy spending the day with your wedding party before you say i-do! If you're a couple who is still indecisive about having a first look, here are some pluses to each that might help you make a decision. First Look: Being able to relax together before the ceremony Having a private moment alone Limited or no photographs after the ceremony More time for creativity from your photographer with a longer sessions before the ceremony Better lighting in the afternoon Time for more than one location No First Look: The surprise factor when the bride walks down the aisle Beginning your wedding day a little later in the morning You won't be g...

You have so many people that are there to help take some of the weight off your shoulders and make your wedding day one to remember. To make sure that you have the right help when you need it, it is important to let your wedding attendants know what their duties are. First, you need to know the responsibilities of your attendants for yourself, so that they can take direction from you and tend to what they will be most helpful with for your big day. So far we have discussed quite a few of the responsibilities that fall on your wedding attendant’s shoulders, after all, they are there to love and support you. Your wedding day can be a stressful day when you are playing hostess, so making sure that everyone is in the right place at the right time, and also making sure that you do your part perfectly, will allow your big day to move smoothly. Here at I Thee Wed , our goal is to provide as much information to our couples as possible, so that they can plan their day with ease, whic...

There are quite a few wedding attendants that might slip your mind when you think about all of the people who can help you on your big day, but you should certainly make sure that none of them are forgotten! Your wedding members are there to love and support you, and, in some cases, such as the ring bearer and flower girl, add a little cuteness to your wedding day. Last week, we discussed the roles and responsibilities of a few of your wedding attendants. This week, I Thee Wed has gathered information on a few of your other popular wedding attendants and what their responsibilities are for your big day, so be sure to continue reading to gain even more knowledge: ·               Father of the Bride.  Viewed as Mr. Money Bags, the father of the Bride traditionally shells out the cash to make sure his little girl’s wedding is as great as she has always hoped it would be, however, today, couples are often paying for their wedding the...

Planning a wedding is a big task, if anyone says that it is easy...they are not being truthful! While it is fun, your wedding planning will consist of a lot of decision making, shopping and coordinating, but luckily, it is a task that you do not have to face alone. By your side, throughout your wedding planning process, as well as the day of your wedding, you will have attendants that will each be assisting you. Your wedding attendants will consist of your closest friends and relatives, and they will all have their own duties in regards to their role in your big day. Although your wedding attendants will of course look exquisite on your big day, that is not their only duty. Whether it be moral support, ceremony duties, reception encouragement or planning an impressive Bachelor or Bachelorette Party, your wedding attendants are there to offer you nothing but help, which is why I Thee Wed has gathered the top wedding attendant roles and the descriptions of their duties, so be...

Your wedding day will consist of a lot of entertainment, from the loving vows, dancing and the cake cutting too, you can ensure that all of the festivities will provide your guests with the opportunity to really enjoy your big day. However, did you know that one of the most important aspects of your wedding is actually the food? Guests will arrive hungry, and they will be expecting a menu that will satisfy all of their cravings. As you plan your wedding, you will run into multiple questions, and the answers you choose will all depict the outcome of your day, so it is important to choose each element wisely, especially when it comes to the planning of your menu. Here at I Thee Wed , we understand that weddings take so much effort to plan, which is why we have gathered some top tips to creating a wonderful wedding menu, so be sure to continue reading to gain some insight for yours: ·          Create a budget . Your wedding budget de...

Your wedding cake is one of the most important (and delicious) elements of your big day, so you definitely want it to be created to exceed all of your expectations. From the flavor to the look, many factors go into the outcome of the perfect wedding cake, but in order to make these decisions, you must first meet with your wedding cake designer.  Preparing for your wedding cake consultation should be fun and exciting, but you will surely be curious as to what questions you should ask for the creation of your wedding cake. Communication is certainly key when it comes to making decisions, especially those associated with your big day. That is why I Thee Wed has gathered some top questions that you should ask your wedding cake designer, so be sure to continue reading to gain some assistance: • The team. Bakeries usually work on wedding cakes in teams, so it is important that you will be meeting with the people who will actually be baking and designing your cake. Ask your ba...

A lot goes into planning a wedding, and most brides and grooms often end up following wedding etiquette that has been around for decades. However, it is now leaving couples wondering if this “etiquette” still needs to be implemented into their big day…The answer is, no! In today’s world there is so much more freedom when it comes to putting together your wedding, and you are most certainly not being judged for the choices you make. Your family and friends will be by your side to support all of your choices, and times are not as they once were where your wedding was supposed to follow certain rules, traditions and timelines. One of the most followed wedding “rules” pertains to your wedding party, and the number of members it includes. Your very close relatives and best friends are the people who become these members, however, one of the most popular questions asked by couples is if their wedding party has to be symmetrical. I Thee Wed has gathered some tips for you to explor...